Heres a cool quote from a southpark episode I watched today:

"Look, nobody likes having to rise to a challenge but competing against other people and getting in their faces, saying "Haha I'm better than you!" is part of life, and if you can't face that, you might as well sit here and play with legos untill you're and old man."

Many may disagree but I think southpark has some very deep messegas, and I personally love how well this quote expresses how most people think about the world. To be completely candid, I'm the person who is just here to "play with legos" untill I'm and old man, which is in my opinion, the only way you can become truly happy.